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Worry!!

December 14, 2010 2 comments

A mom passing by her son’s bedroom was astonishd. D bed was nicly made n evrythng was packd.She saw an envlop on d bed.It was adressd “MOM.” She opend d envlop n read d lettr wid tremblng hands.

‘Dear mom,its wid gr8 regrt dat im writing 2 u. I had 2 run away wid my galfrnd coz i wanna avoid d scene wid dad n u. I’v been findin real passion wid her n shz so nice evn her dimpl cheeks n swt eyes n gud charctr. Dnt wry mom im 21yrs old i knw hw 2 tc of myslf. Sumday v’l come n vist so u can get 2 knw ur grndchldrn’

A tear trickled down as she read on….

MOM, none of d abov is true!
Im @ neighbors house!I jus wanna remind u dat der r worse things in lyf dan my Results on my desk. Call wen its safe 4 me 2 come home !

Don’t you worry, there are other things to worry 🙂

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Be Thankful…

November 28, 2010 Leave a comment
Often times we do not realize the gift of God and are not thankful for what we have. Apostle Paul was thankful for everything though he had suffered. Paul was either in prison or in synagogues preaching the people.  Paul was a man of gratitude and if we read each of his letters he begins by thanking the people.
Lets thank God for everything he has given to us and lets together say:
  • I’m Thankful for my faith
  • I’m Thankful for my family
  • I’m Thankful for my friends
  • I’m Thankful for my finances
  • I’m Thankful for my future

Thanks be to God...

inspired by Dr. David Jeremiah‘s speech on thanksgiving.
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Love, Sex & Marriage…

November 17, 2010 Leave a comment

The topic was very well discussed in the youth retreat led by Mr. Philip Cherian held on Aug 15th, 2007 @ St.Thomas Church, R.C.Puram, Hyderabad. Philip Cherian is the director of Formations India , he has been a source of inspiration for many youths and his talks relate to his personal experience. Coming to the topic discussed in the meeting, he classified love as three types

  • If- Love
  • Because- Love
  • Full Stop –Love

In ‘If love’ a person will love a person if he/she has or possesses something for eg:// some girls when they talk would say like, I would love him if he had a guitar in hand, and if he had a Yamaha motor bike. All the if conditions.

The second type of love is because Love, where a person loves his/her partner because he/she is son of a millionaire, or he/she is a famous personality,etc..

The third type is the Full stop love, where you don’t find a single instance of both the partners quarrelling with each other. There is a mutual understanding with each other and one doesn’t play a blame game… What advantages one has when he/she loves full stop is there is no chance of taking advantage of the opposite sex for what he/she has done in the past. What I mean was the person trust his partner and knows and believes that both are living a true and Christian life.

There were also examples given on how people get into wrong things and end up in trouble. Philip Cherian gave an example of a guy who flirted around at the age of 19 and kept finding new girl friends till the age of 29… What he wanted to emphasize from this example was the guy wasted 10 years running around different girl friends for 10 years and messed up his life. There is something we can take from this example, it’s like instead of wasting time for all this, he should have spent his time for things which were necessary to do at that age for a better career and a true Christian life.

He also gave an example of a guy who was just in school, the small kid came and asked him is it good to have a girl friend?? And Philip cherian’s reply was yes to that…Teens pls concentrate here.. Philip Cherian told yes to have a girl friend..thats something strange right?? Anyways, he advised the guy to have friends who are girls and have many girl friends instead of only one…the age factor should always be considered when you think something like this is gonna happen in your life..Is it the right time..or is it the right person or is it ok to have a boy/girl frnd at this age. . (now maybe too early to comment on this.. There was also advice for the young generation, he said it was OK  to be attracted to one person. It’s a human tendency, he also told that it’s legitimate…Being attractive is fine but don’t get addicted to that attraction and it can become lust. I hope it was clear in here… he also told that it’s good to dress properly and have a good physique. Human body is a gift of God and we need to be fit and keep away from too much of junk and things like that…He also emphasized that it’s always a better option to set your goals and decide the age when you are going to get married.

Love is true but don't be fooled.

 

Your thoughts, suggestions are most welcome….

 

Thanks

Varghese

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Once upon a time…

October 18, 2010 2 comments

Once upon a time.. Oh wait, is this how all stories start? 🙂

Its hard for someone to go through trials and difficulties especially when you fall in love. What is love? Is this a feeling or something. A famous speaker once said that it’s hard to love continuously for a month. There would then be differences and it’s not the same love anymore. Nowadays, we hear about love stories. There is nothing different from what it used to be. People fell in love and got married. Some have gone through a lot of pain and difficult. In developing countries, it’s still a big thing. We hear of families not happy with the decisions their children make and even have gone to the extreme. Their thinking is radical and it may not be the right solution.

I believe family plays a vital role in future of the guy/girl in love. There are cases where the guy/girl eloped and also cases where girl/guy talk to their families and make it a arranged marriage. Don’t just think its over if things don’t work out. There maybe someone else for ya.. Take time to and think of what’s good for you. Live life to the fullest. God bless!!

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