A mom passing by her son’s bedroom was astonishd. D bed was nicly made n evrythng was packd.She saw an envlop on d bed.It was adressd “MOM.” She opend d envlop n read d lettr wid tremblng hands.
‘Dear mom,its wid gr8 regrt dat im writing 2 u. I had 2 run away wid my galfrnd coz i wanna avoid d scene wid dad n u. I’v been findin real passion wid her n shz so nice evn her dimpl cheeks n swt eyes n gud charctr. Dnt wry mom im 21yrs old i knw hw 2 tc of myslf. Sumday v’l come n vist so u can get 2 knw ur grndchldrn’
A tear trickled down as she read on….
MOM, none of d abov is true!
Im @ neighbors house!I jus wanna remind u dat der r worse things in lyf dan my Results on my desk. Call wen its safe 4 me 2 come home !
Don’t you worry, there are other things to worry 🙂
- I’m Thankful for my faith
- I’m Thankful for my family
- I’m Thankful for my friends
- I’m Thankful for my finances
- I’m Thankful for my future
The topic was very well discussed in the youth retreat led by Mr. Philip Cherian held on Aug 15th, 2007 @ St.Thomas Church, R.C.Puram, Hyderabad. Philip Cherian is the director of Formations India , he has been a source of inspiration for many youths and his talks relate to his personal experience. Coming to the topic discussed in the meeting, he classified love as three types
- If- Love
- Because- Love
- Full Stop –Love
In ‘If love’ a person will love a person if he/she has or possesses something for eg:// some girls when they talk would say like, I would love him if he had a guitar in hand, and if he had a Yamaha motor bike. All the if conditions.
The second type of love is because Love, where a person loves his/her partner because he/she is son of a millionaire, or he/she is a famous personality,etc..
The third type is the Full stop love, where you don’t find a single instance of both the partners quarrelling with each other. There is a mutual understanding with each other and one doesn’t play a blame game… What advantages one has when he/she loves full stop is there is no chance of taking advantage of the opposite sex for what he/she has done in the past. What I mean was the person trust his partner and knows and believes that both are living a true and Christian life.
There were also examples given on how people get into wrong things and end up in trouble. Philip Cherian gave an example of a guy who flirted around at the age of 19 and kept finding new girl friends till the age of 29… What he wanted to emphasize from this example was the guy wasted 10 years running around different girl friends for 10 years and messed up his life. There is something we can take from this example, it’s like instead of wasting time for all this, he should have spent his time for things which were necessary to do at that age for a better career and a true Christian life.
He also gave an example of a guy who was just in school, the small kid came and asked him is it good to have a girl friend?? And Philip cherian’s reply was yes to that…Teens pls concentrate here.. Philip Cherian told yes to have a girl friend..thats something strange right?? Anyways, he advised the guy to have friends who are girls and have many girl friends instead of only one…the age factor should always be considered when you think something like this is gonna happen in your life..Is it the right time..or is it the right person or is it ok to have a boy/girl frnd at this age. . (now maybe too early to comment on this.. There was also advice for the young generation, he said it was OK to be attracted to one person. It’s a human tendency, he also told that it’s legitimate…Being attractive is fine but don’t get addicted to that attraction and it can become lust. I hope it was clear in here… he also told that it’s good to dress properly and have a good physique. Human body is a gift of God and we need to be fit and keep away from too much of junk and things like that…He also emphasized that it’s always a better option to set your goals and decide the age when you are going to get married.
Your thoughts, suggestions are most welcome….
World of the generous gets larger and larger but the world of the stingy gets smaller and smaller
I was watching the sermon by Pastor Brian Houston, the sermon was about getting the momentum in life and how we can go about changing the world around us. We often become stingy and then start to cut back from the reality. We do not want to move forward as there is worry about the future. I noted down few points from the sermon and I hope will beusefulfor each oneof us to get back our momentum.
Positive words and outlookProverbs 12:25(New International Version)
25 An anxious heart weighs a man down, but a kind word cheers him up.
Have a positive outlook andkind words would definitely cheer us up.
Life giving partnershipsProverbs 13:20(New International Version)
20 He who walks with the wise grows wise, but a companion of fools suffers harm.
Never ever walk away from partnerships. Be there and provide the needed guidance to the one in need.
A commitment to community and people.Hebrews 10:25(New International Version)
25Let us not give up meeting together, as some are in the habit of doing, but let us encourage one another—and all the more as you see the Day approaching.
Continue to encourage one other and reach-out to the community and people.
Sacrificial commitment and volunteer. Timothy 6:17(New International Version)
17Command those who are rich in this present world not to be arrogant nor to put their hope in wealth, which is so uncertain, but to put their hope in God, who richly provides us with everything for our enjoyment.
If we want see more momentum, we should be ready to give, willing to share and help carry the load. Don’t get stingy , don’t just be there. Stay in the house and carry the load.
Believe in the cause. John 18:37(New International Version)
37″You are a king, then!” said Pilate.Jesus answered, “You are right in saying I am a king. In fact, for this reason I was born, and for this I came into the world, to testify to the truth. Everyone on the side of truth listens to me.”
Youthful dreams and visionsBe daring enough and keep dreaming. Be generouswith ur words, and don’t just drawback, try to extend urself.
God bless you!
Yours in Christ,
Friendship is not about “I m there for u” or “I missed u “ it’s about “kahan marr gaya saale “
Friendship is not about “I understand “ its about “sab teri wajah se hua manhus“
Friendship is not about “I care for u “ its about “kamino tumhe chhod ke kahan jaunga “
Friendship is not about “I m happy for ur success “its about “chal party de saale“
Friendship is not about “I love that girl“ its about “saalo izzat se dekho tumhari bhabhi hain “
Friendship is not about “R u coming for outing tomorrow “ its about “ nautanki nahi, hum kal bahar ja rahe hai “
Friendship is not about “Get well soon “its about “Itna piyega toh yehi hoga“
Friendship is not about “All the best for ur career“ its about “ bahut hua, abhi toh switch mar saale“